If We Could Shout, Would You Do the Same?: Obssesed Appreciation

Dec 19, 2009

Posted by Ern T. at 3:59 PM

I wonder.

Whether the things that I do for others, does it bring to anything?

Maybe I'm just not the right person to give to that certain somebody.

But now I think, should we just ignore the blessings that has been given by others, just because it's not from that"special" somebody?

Why is it so important who is it from? Does this kind of expectation do any good?

No matter from who or what it is, can't you see when it is genuine?

WHAT IF, you just can't get that particular person to feel the same way as you, do you have any rights to be angry at him/her?

I think, there's no right nor wrong. You're just letting yourself into endless disappointment.

Let's just say, it's a perfect love triangle.

I love you-you love the other-the other loves me.

Won't I get hurt if I were to give a whole heart, present it as an offering to you, but you couldn't care less and just throw it away?

Wouldn't you get hurt too if you gave your whole heart to the other, and the other doesn't appreciate as much as you want them to?

What happens if this case scenario goes around for a long time? Continuous chain of hurt I would say!

But if we break off from that triangle, be free, get a new life.

Won't it be much a better experience for all of us?

If things like this happen, it's NEVER FAIR.

So, stop being obsessed who it's from, just appreciate the damn thing that's given. And what you already have.

Doesn't the past of what you had, and have lost, bring any lesson to you?

Stop throwing whatever things that came from the heart of someone, and expect others to keep yours.

Don't go around getting angry about that thing, when it's the same thing that someone else got hurt by you.

Treat others the same way you would want others to treat you.

If you want others to appreciate you, make sure that yourself appreciates what others have done for you.